I’ve seen this book on and off over the years, but it wasn’t until I saw @muslimkidsbooknook’s post about it, did it register that it is a chapter book, with a plot and story. I thought it was a journal for seven year olds with prompts perhaps. Needless to say I judged a book by its cover and hope at some point the author will consider changing the title, redesigning the cover, and tightening up the story, because there is a lot to enjoy in this book, but to get to it, you have to get it in your hands, and open the cover. The doodles, the author’s voice, and the playful font over 128 pages will appeal to elementary aged girls, but boys will find plenty to relate to as well if you can convince them to give it a try.
Seven-year-old Maryam has started taking her salat more seriously, and finally the family, her parents and her, are going on a REAL holiday. They are going for Umrah. Maryam is so excited, but then the trip gets canceled and her mom is sick, and Maryam is tired of always feeling different than her classmates. Will everything work out? Will prayers and duas be answered? Will eight be great?
WHY I LIKE IT:
I love that the book stays on a seven/eight year old level, but I do question how much stress is on how sick the pregnant mom is, and how kids will understand that. I was sick, very sick, with all my pregnancies, and my older children saw me and it still affects them, in sometimes surprising ways. My oldest daughter says she is never having kids. Granted she is 14, but I would worry that reading a children’s book that mirrors something that was pretty traumatic for her to see will cement her impression about childbearing. Obviously, I could be the exception, and perhaps like many literary mirrors it would make her relate more to the story. I know she is above the target audience, but the illness of the mom is a large part of the book, and it is very detailed and specific. I think if you are a young child reading it, you might ask your mom if that was her experience, and it could be a lovely conversation about heaven being at your mother’s feet, and the tests and blessings of it all, but the book really doubles down on some of the details of the throwing up and vomiting, and I wish her being sick could be shown in more situational ways. Maybe she tried to do an activity with her daughter, but couldn’t, or she had to ask another mom to help with something she normally did at Maryam’s school, etc.. There are such wonderful tangible little nuggets in the book about salat at the park, and kids duas, and making wudu in public, that I think a little reframing of the illness and symptoms is definitely in the author’s skill set.
I love the unapologetic voice of being Muslim and some of the insecurities that Maryam faces and grows from. Kids will enjoy seeing their concerns articulated, and inshaAllah benefit from her perspective as they make decisions about their own identity and attitude. I know some families make a big deal about starting salat at seven, but when the book starts she has been seven for a while, so I’m not entirely sure why that was the focus of the book’s title. Additionally, the pink cover really screams that it is a girl book, and I think boys will be nervous to be reading a “girl book,” that really isn’t gender specific in the storyline. Yes, there are all sorts of stereotypes in that assessment, but I think you all get what I’m saying.
Illness, a bit of a temper bubbling over, stress.
TOOLS FOR LEADING THE DISCUSSION:
I think young readers that are handed the book and start it, will finish reading it. It is a super quick read, and with the drawings and conversational language, they will enjoy the pages as they fly by. It is an elementary read, and anyone older will probably see the foreshadowing that the mom is expecting, while the second and third grade readers, will probably be genuinely surprised.