
This is an important book to show representation of an underrepresented group, not just those with autism, but also those that love them and live with them. It is also important to spread awareness so that those that do not have first hand experience can show compassion and patience for the individual and those around them as well.
This 16 page book, only 9 pages of text, is written by a mother and daughter about another daughter. It is told from the perspective of 9 year old Juwayriyah and how she sees and helps her younger sister Hind.
I love that it makes it super clear that children with autism are created this way by Allah swt and made special just as all of us are unique and special. I also like that Juwayriyah has had to learn to slow down and say bismillah before often dealing with Hind. It also shows that it is a work in progress and there are good days and bad days. It isn’t smooth sailing, and it isn’t something that needs to be fixed, it is what it is and we must adapt.
The book is wonderful, for what it does and what it represents, however, in terms of story, it is kind of dry. It very much is a nine year old, optimistically talking about her sister and how rubbing her hands has proved a coping skills when she is overwhelmed, but you don’t get to know any of the characters. You don’t feel a bond, or understand what life is like for Hind, or why sometimes she has outbursts or what her triggers are. I don’t know that kids will even understand concretely what autims is other than that it means people with it learn and act and think differently, as no real examples are given.
There is a lot of text on the pages. I think if you know someone with autism or have maybe seen a child having a melt down, children younger kids will enjoy the explanation and fact giving the book provides. Otherwise I think 2nd to 4th graders will get the most out of this book as they start to notice different behaviors and other’s reactions to them.