I depart from the Islamic Fiction that I enthusiastically seek out and read, to share and review a work of non-fiction that swept me off my feet. Perfect for children eight and up, and particularly ideal for girls, this book is absolutely physically beautiful and the content is as well. This 176 page book flows like a story not a history book, and at times a love story between Khadijah (RA) and our beloved Prophet (SAW). The font and spacing invites young readers to absorb each word without feeling rushed or overwhelmed.
The book is a biography of our mother, Khadijah bint Khuwaylid. It starts just before she is made aware of Muhammad and ends with her death, followed by a few reflections of RasulAllah missing her. For the most part the story keeps her at the focus and for the age group the slips into seerah are no problem. But I wanted more about her. I learned that she was married twice before she wed Prophet Muhammed, but I wanted to know more of her children with these other men. I wanted to know if they ever accepted Islam. I wanted to know of Khadijah’s childhood and her parents, and her tribe. I wanted to know more about her sister who sounded like her, and if she had any other siblings. It scratched the surface, and even my 10-year-old daughter wanted more, in a good way.
It covers their marriage, and it reads like a sweet fairy tale that is absolutely full of noor and love. It shares how she supported the Prophet at every turn and the hardships of the boycott. It drops names and places, but not in an over burdening way. In many places I actually wanted more detail as to how they all fit together in time and place. As she has children and grows ill and time passes, the story comes to an end. Almost too quickly, as her day-to-day life as a mother and wife are missing, and I was hoping there would be more. Yes the growth of Islam and the plots of the Quraysh are so important, but I wanted more Khadijah, in a book claiming to teach us about our “legendary mother.”
WHY I LIKE IT:
Obviously the story is great, and really the way it is presented is how our kids need to know our history: with love and compassion and enthusiasm. You feel the love between Khadijah (RA) and Prophet Muhammad (SAW) you see how patient and devoted she is in a very emotional way. Truly the author has given life to a story many of us know, and filled us with a connection and relationship that is very personal and inspiring in nature. When you finish the book, you feel like Khadijah is a friend, an amazing friend, but someone you know intimately and proudly, not just as a historical figure.
TOOLS FOR LEADING THE DISCUSSION:
I would absolutely do this for like a 4th -6th grade book club. I think it should be mandatory reading. I would probably invite someone well versed in the seerah and Khadijah to answer the children’s questions. How wonderous it would be to hear the kids discussing her life and offering parallels, lessons, and inspiration to one another from their new found knowledge of Khadijah (RA).