This 32 page picture book for early elementary children addresses an important topic of pregnancy loss and grief through the eyes of a young girl excited and then devastated by the loss of her unborn sister.  The author is Muslim, but their is nothing religious in the text, it is a universal and poignant story from an OB-GYN who has counseled patients and experienced it in her own family.  The book is a story that can benefit children needing reassurance or simply provide a way to have heartfelt conversations.  The soft illustrations and gentle steps the character takes to help with the big feelings inside will allow readers of all ages to feel less alone, and see that support is available.

Nura is not born yet, and Samir is a fun little brother, but Raya has big plans for a baby sister.  They will run through sprinklers in matching bathing suits, and she’ll pass on her ballet costumes for her to wear, she’ll love chocolate and dolphins and they’ll share everything. Raya even hopes they will share a birthday, that would be the best present ever.

One day Mama goes to the doctor for a checkup, but when she comes back she looks like she has been crying.  She tells Raya, Nura won’t be coming home.  Nura is confused and sad.  There is an ache in her heart.  She talks to her parents, draws pictures, meets with the school counselor.  The family plants a tree and they talk about her and remember.

I like that you see the joy and anticipation the little girl has for the arrival of her little sister and the painful aftermath when she is not going to get to see her dreams materialize.  The book isn’t just a resource, it has literary elements as well that make the book valuable for those who can relate and even those that have been spared from such a loss.  The book can be preordered here.